Hi, I’m Victoria Willis
The Calm Coach
I’m a coach, therapist and author, specialising in deep emotional healing and spiritual awakening. I help people like you to transform their lives by healing their emotional wounds, breaking free from old patterns, and awakening to their true authentic self.
Using a unique blend of embodied inquiry, depth psychology and nondual presence, we journey inwardly together to gradually free you from everything you aren’t and awaken to all that you are. This isn’t a quick fix; it’s a deeply transformational journey into the depths of your psyche and heights of your soul.
If you’re ready to experience real inner shifts, I’m here to guide and support you. I’m based in the UK but I work exclusively on Zoom, which allows me to support clients all over the world.
HEAL
Free yourself from the emotional wounds and subconscious patterns that have been weighing you down. Through deep, inner work, you’ll gently uncover and release the pain of the past, and create space for greater peace, clarity and emotional freedom.
GROW
Cultivate greater self-awareness, emotional intelligence and inner strength. As you connect more deeply with your inner world, you’ll develop more capacity and resilience to handle life’s challenges, allowing you to live and grow with confidence and authenticity.
AWAKEN
Expand beyond old patterns and identities, and awaken to your true authentic self. As you activate and embody higher levels of consciousness, you’ll begin to experience more presence, wholeness and a deeper spiritual connection.
THRIVE
Step into the life you were meant to live – grounded, empowered and aligned. With your inner wounds healed and your authentic-self awakened, you’ll discover the clarity, purpose and vitality to create a life that truly nourishes your soul.
Spiritual Awakening Coach
Your journey is unique, and so is my approach. I use a proven blend of highly effective modalities to transform your inner world through deep emotional healing and spiritual awakening:
Embodied Inquiry: Being in the body is the foundation for self-discovery, connecting with your soul’s unique essence and activating its “essential qualities”.
Nondual Presence: A shared field of embodied awareness (or presence) that creates the perfect “space” for inquiry, healing and awakening.
Spiritual Transmission: A resonance between souls that helps your system to attune to higher frequencies of healing and consciousness.
InCorr Method: A gentle yet effective, body-centred therapeutic approach that helps to identify, unpack and heal emotional issues at the root cause level.
Inner Child Healing: Connecting with and nurturing your inner child to heal early emotional wounds and restore inner safety.
Parts Work (IFS): Processing resistance and reactivity by understanding and reintegrating the different “parts” of your psyche.
The Enneagram: A system that describes our psychological and spiritual nature. It shows us how we lost touch with our true nature, and how we can find our way back to it.
This deep and effective approach is for you, if you…
Are curious about your inner world and are ready to heal, grow, awaken and thrive.
Want to realise your true authentic self and live a deeper, more fulfilling life.
Sense a deeper calling but don’t know how to access it.
Are already on the spiritual path but have lost impetus and direction.
Want to feel lighter, freer and really embody your true self.
Are ready to release the beliefs and feelings that have kept you stuck for so long.
Want to explore the root causes of your issues instead of repressing them.
Yearn for more self-acceptance, self-worth and unconditional self-love.
Are intent on releasing deep-rooted fear, sadness, guilt or shame.
Want to free yourself from the grips of anxiety, depression or addiction.
Know it’s time to free yourself from the past and create a new future.
Are ready to access and embody higher levels of consciousness and a deeper spiritual connection.
The only journey really worth taking is the journey within!
A Bit About Me
My personal journey of self-discovery, healing and awakening began in 2000. At that time, my life looked great on paper, but it felt shallow and unfulfilling. And I was still suffering from the chronic anxiety that almost ruined my final year of university, a few years earlier.
I knew there had to be more to life than material success, and so began my search for meaning and purpose. I naively thought I could find that through mind-based knowledge, but that didn’t change who I was. It took me 10 years to realise that if I wanted deep transformational change, I needed to go deeper into my consciousness. I had to get out of my head and feel down into my heart and body, and that’s when the real transformations began.
When I started feeling into my “stuff” instead of just thinking about it, it all started to unpack, heal and reintegrate. I began to feel happy, peaceful and fulfilled, instead of anxious, insecure and flat. To my surprise, the “inner work” also connected me to blissful, transcendent, spiritual states, which have fuelled my inner journey to this day!
Why Work With Me?
Inner work can be done on your own, but it’s slow and challenging. Progress is much faster and easier when you have someone to “hold the space”, guide you and support you. Even after all these years, I still regularly work with my teachers. I have spent well over £100k on my own psychospiritual development, and it’s the best money I’ve ever spent. Investing in “inner work” not only makes my life better now; it makes my future life better, and all of my future lives better. I will literally reap the rewards of my inner work for all eternity, and so can you.
Over the years, I have developed a deep understanding of the complexities and nuances of healing and awakening, and the best methods for achieving them both. The nondual presence I bring into each session is a key aspect of my approach that can both ease and expedite your progress. My unique multi-faceted approach is more effective than anything else I’ve encountered, and anything else my clients have encountered.
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What is spiritual awakening?
Spiritual awakening is the process of rediscovering your true nature or essence. It involves gradually dis-identifying from your ego-self – your conceptual sense of yourself that is imbued with emotional wounds, deficient feelings and negative core beliefs – so you can awaken to your true authentic self. It’s like “waking up” from autopilot to realise a deeper sense of presence, awareness, peace, happiness, fulfilment and a connection to something bigger and more meaningful than you’ve ever experienced before.
What are the benefits of spiritual awakening?
Awakening (to our authentic Self or true nature) is the solution to most, if not all, emotional and mental health issues. Psychological suffering is the result of being identified with our conceptual sense of self or ego-self (who-we-think-we-are), rather than our authentic essence or true nature (who-we-actually-are). Our identification with our ego-self is problematic because it is imbued with feelings of separation, hurt, deficiency, helplessness, powerlessness, fear, anger, self-loathing, abandonment, shutdown, invalidation, etc., mainly from our childhood. Our true nature, in contrast, is imbued with wholeness, fullness, peace, presence, love, unity, compassion, uniqueness, joy, strength, empowerment, etc. How would you rather live?
How to have a spiritual awakening?
You can’t force a spiritual awakening, but you can create the right conditions for it to unfold naturally. Practices such as mindfulness, meditation, self-inquiry and breathwork can all help you to reconnect with your inner self and awaken spiritually. But “presence” (or embodied awareness) is the most important factor for spiritual awakening because it allows you to deepen into the felt experience of your true nature, and work through the psychological material that is obscuring it. Working with a therapist or coach can provide much-needed guidance and support.
How long does healing and awakening take?
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If you want to heal, grow, awaken and thrive, and you’re ready to experience real inner shifts, I’m here to guide and support you.
Discovery Call
(30 mins on Zoom)
Single Session
(60 mins on Zoom)
