Hi, I’m Victoria Willis

The Calm Coach

I’m a coach, therapist and author, specialising in deep emotional healing and spiritual awakening. I help people like you to transform their lives by healing their emotional wounds, breaking free from old patterns, and awakening to their true authentic self.

Using a unique blend of embodied inquiry, depth psychology and nondual presence, we journey inwardly together to gradually free you from everything you aren’t and awaken to all that you are. This isn’t a quick fix; it’s a deeply transformational journey into the depths of your psyche and heights of your soul.

If you’re ready to experience real inner shifts, I’m here to guide and support you. I’m based in the UK but I work exclusively on Zoom, which allows me to support clients all over the world.

HEAL

Free yourself from the emotional wounds and subconscious patterns that have been weighing you down. Through deep, inner work, you’ll gently uncover and release the pain of the past, and create space for greater peace, clarity and emotional freedom.

GROW

Cultivate greater self-awareness, emotional intelligence and inner strength. As you connect more deeply with your inner world, you’ll develop more capacity and resilience to handle life’s challenges, allowing you to live and grow with confidence and authenticity.

AWAKEN

Expand beyond old patterns and identities, and awaken to your true authentic self. As you activate and embody higher levels of consciousness, you’ll begin to experience more presence, wholeness and a deeper spiritual connection.

THRIVE

Step into the life you were meant to live – grounded, empowered and aligned. With your inner wounds healed and your authentic-self awakened, you’ll discover the clarity, purpose and vitality to create a life that truly nourishes your soul.

Spiritual Awakening Coach

Your journey is unique, and so is my approach. I use a proven blend of highly effective modalities to transform your inner world through deep emotional healing and spiritual awakening:

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Embodied Inquiry: Being in the body is the foundation for self-discovery, connecting with your soul’s unique essence and activating its “essential qualities”.

Nondual Presence: A shared field of embodied awareness (or presence) that creates the perfect “space” for inquiry, healing and awakening.

Spiritual Transmission: A resonance between souls that helps your system to attune to higher frequencies of healing and consciousness.

Empathic Sensitivity: This allows me to track what’s happening within you – energetically, emotionally and spiritually, which helps us to stay focused on what’s unfolding, releasing and transforming in each moment.

InCorr Method: A gentle yet effective, body-centred therapeutic approach that helps to identify, unpack and heal emotional issues at the root cause level.

Inner Child Healing: Connecting with and nurturing your inner child to heal early emotional wounds and restore inner safety.

Parts Work (IFS): Processing resistance and reactivity by understanding and reintegrating the different “parts” of your psyche.

The Enneagram: A system that describes our psychological and spiritual nature. It shows us how we lost touch with our true nature, and how we can find our way back to it.

This deep and effective approach is for you, if you…
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Are curious about your inner world and are ready to heal, grow, awaken and thrive.

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Want to realise your true authentic self and live a deeper, more fulfilling life.

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Sense a deeper calling but don’t know how to access it.

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Are already on the spiritual path but have lost impetus and direction.

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Want to feel lighter, freer and really embody your true self.

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Are ready to release the beliefs and feelings that have kept you stuck for so long.

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Want to explore the root causes of your issues instead of repressing them.

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Yearn for more self-acceptance, self-worth and unconditional self-love.

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Are intent on releasing deep-rooted fear, sadness, guilt or shame.

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Want to free yourself from the grips of anxiety, depression or addiction.

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Know it’s time to free yourself from the past and create a new future.

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Are ready to access and embody higher levels of consciousness and a deeper spiritual connection.

The only journey really worth taking is the journey within!

A Bit About Me

My personal journey of self-discovery, healing and awakening began in 2000. At that time, my life looked great on paper, but it felt shallow and unfulfilling. And I was still suffering from the chronic anxiety that almost ruined my final year of university, a few years earlier.

I knew there had to be more to life than material success, and so began my search for meaning and purpose. I naively thought I could find that through mind-based knowledge, but that didn’t change who I was. It took me 10 years to realise that if I wanted deep transformational change, I needed to go deeper into my consciousness. I had to get out of my head and feel down into my heart and body, and that’s when the real transformations began.

When I started feeling into my “stuff” instead of just thinking about it, it all started to unpack, heal and reintegrate. I began to feel happy, peaceful and fulfilled, instead of anxious, insecure and flat. To my surprise, the “inner work” also connected me to blissful, transcendent, spiritual states, which have fuelled my inner journey to this day!

Why Work With Me?

Inner work can be done on your own, but it’s slow and challenging. Progress is much faster and easier when you have someone to “hold the space”, guide you and support you. Even after all these years, I still regularly work with my teachers. I have spent well over £100k on my own psychospiritual development, and it’s the best money I’ve ever spent. Investing in “inner work” not only makes my life better now; it makes my future life better, and all of my future lives better. I will literally reap the rewards of my inner work for all eternity, and so can you.

Over the years, I have developed a deep understanding of the complexities and nuances of healing and awakening, and the best methods for achieving them both. The nondual presence I bring into each session is a key aspect of my approach that can both ease and expedite your progress. My unique multi-faceted approach is more effective than anything else I’ve encountered, and anything else my clients have encountered.

Testimonials

I tried a few different therapeutic approaches before finding Lee, including CBT, EMDR and hypnotherapy, but nothing really worked for long. What really made the difference with Lee’s approach was going much deeper, through the surface worries and unpleasant feelings, and into the underlying root causes of my anxiety. Now I don’t just cope with my symptoms, I actually feel free from the anxiety… finally! No more overthinking, feeling terrible or panic attacks. Although the process took a little longer than expected, it really did deliver. Deep work must be done safely, so it does takes time, but it was totally worth it. I literally feel like I’ve been born again, and this new me actually enjoys life! My friends and family can really see the difference in me too.

Robert O

“Working with Lee has been so valuable to my life. Energy blocks from trauma have been brought to the surface and released. It’s been so transformative. Each session has helped me to continue to support myself to grow by helping me to focus my energy with intention. This has led to peace and total wellbeing in my life. I’m looking forward to future sessions.”

Elizabeth S

Before starting therapy, I felt constantly on edge and overwhelmed by even small things. I literally felt like a child a lot of time and couldn’t really cope with life. Working with Lee helped me to understand where my fear and anxiety were really coming from, and over the next few months we slowly worked our way through it all. Lee’s insightful coaching and healing therapy helped me to gradually rediscover my adult self and my soul’s essence realise I could handle life. The “space” Lee holds, and guidance and support he provides, are amazing. He really knows his stuff! His first-hand experience of anxiety meant I felt like he really got me, unlike my previous therapist. Now I feel so much calmer, relaxed, and finally able to enjoy life without the constant fear, worry and insecurity that plagued me for years.

Paul L

“I am not exaggerating when I say that Lee has changed my life. I now look at everything differently; not just because of the healing and growth, but he is an immense fountain of knowledge and the work we have done around my various beliefs and ingrained patterns since childhood has been truly transformative. We can either choose to stay asleep, or wake up and do the challenging inner work. Lee holds the most amazing, healing space and I recommend him to everyone!”

Louise W

“Lee is a gifted and intuitive practitioner working on many levels. After just one session I could feel my energetic and physical body rebalancing. The effects of his sessions have been profound. I highly recommend his approach if you’re ready for significant change and healing!”

Emma H

“I worked with Lee for a few months to clear the patterns in my head, heart and body – negative thinking, deficient emotions and strange energetic pains. It was nothing short of miraculous – I am a different person now. He helped me to tune into lots of stuff that had been going on inside me all my life, without my conscious awareness. I quickly realised that I wasn’t really in control of my life – these parts and patterns were controlling me. Experientially realising this provided some immediate relief, but deeply feeling into them, with his reassuring, supportive, healing presence, was really transformational.”

Daniel R

“Thanks Lee, you’re amazing! I really appreciate you. Things are really good! I am sitting in awareness more of the time than not. I’ve certainly “woken up” in the dream and I’m more conscious of when I’ve fallen back to “sleep”, which is really transformative, not just on the inside but on the outside too. I also have a massive accumulation of energy, really amazing positivity is surging through me!”

Emily S

“I’ve always had a spiritual gift, but I never really understood it. So a friend suggested I have a session with Lee… that was yesterday, and all I can say is WOW! For some reason, I expected it to be more of a psychological session to understand what was going on, but what unfolded in Lee’s powerful presence was a very enlightening shamanic journey… It began with a past life that resonated with my current situation, then we journeyed up through several planes of consciousness, all of which were amazing, to a place/space that felt as if I was being hugged, held, accepted and loved by the entire universe. It was the deepest, most powerful, most divine experience of my life. Absolutely awesome, thank you so much!”

Claudia G

“Lee safely led me into the therapy, clearly and knowledgeably guiding me through as it progressed. I wasn’t sure what to expect but as the session ended it became clear that my body had been holding on to so much which I was able to let go of without any of the challenging or emotional energy I’ve experienced with other therapies. I have experienced lasting effects in the days following the session and feel that a part of me has been accessed which I have been guarding and protecting. Things seem clearer and I feel less attached to the things that haven’t been serving me. Thank you so much Lee for your intuitive and powerful work.”

Catherine C

“Thanks ever so much for the session. I’ve felt absolutely great since, a little emotional, in a good way, and felt really at ease, relaxed and focused. Instead of my mind and energy racing at 1000mph I feel really chilled. I usually find it really difficult to relax into a calm state of mind, if at all, so really really pleased with the session, happy days! Really looking forward to the next session.”

Jonny S

I used to doubt myself all the time and worry about what everyone else thought. I was very anxious, a bit OCD and a real people pleaser. During my zoom sessions with Lee, we developed my emotional tolerance before working on the core beliefs and feelings that were fuelling my anxiety. Not knowing why I felt anxious all the time, was one of the things that made me feel more anxious, but that stopped after we mapped my anxiety pattern. It was then that I began to rediscover who I really was – my true essence – and that’s when everything really started to shift. I now feel lighter, more confident, and able to face situations that used to scare me before. It’s been completely life-changing. Thanks ever so much.

David L

“I really enjoyed my sessions with Lee. From the very first one, the effects were subtle but noticeable and I became quickly aware of how considerably less reactive I was to situations that I would normally find triggering. I felt an inner calm and clarity. Would highly recommend.”

Laura C
The Awakening Coach FAQ

What is spiritual awakening?

Spiritual awakening is the process of rediscovering your true nature or essence. It involves gradually dis-identifying from your ego-self – your conceptual sense of yourself that is imbued with emotional wounds, deficient feelings and negative core beliefs – so you can awaken to your true authentic self. It’s like “waking up” from autopilot to realise a deeper sense of presence, awareness, peace, happiness, fulfilment and a connection to something bigger and more meaningful than you’ve ever experienced before.

What are the benefits of spiritual awakening?

Awakening (to our authentic Self or true nature) is the solution to most, if not all, emotional and mental health issues. Psychological suffering is the result of being identified with our conceptual sense of self or ego-self (who-we-think-we-are), rather than our authentic essence or true nature (who-we-actually-are). Our identification with our ego-self is problematic because it is imbued with feelings of separation, hurt, deficiency, helplessness, powerlessness, fear, anger, self-loathing, abandonment, shutdown, invalidation, etc., mainly from our childhood. Our true nature, in contrast, is imbued with wholeness, fullness, peace, presence, love, unity, compassion, uniqueness, joy, strength, empowerment, etc. How would you rather live?

How to have a spiritual awakening?

You can’t force a spiritual awakening, but you can create the right conditions for it to unfold naturally. Practices such as mindfulness, meditation, self-inquiry and breathwork can all help you to reconnect with your inner self and awaken spiritually. But “presence” (or embodied awareness) is the most important factor for spiritual awakening because it allows you to deepen into the felt experience of your true nature, and work through the psychological material that is obscuring it. Working with a therapist or coach can provide much-needed guidance and support.

How long does healing and awakening take?

This isn’t a quick fix; it’s a deeply transformational journey into the depths of your psyche and the heights of your soul. You need courage and commitment to embark on a journey of healing and awakening. Good progress can be made in a few months, but most people continue working with me because they are happy with the progress they keep making. If you’re ready to experience real inner shifts, I’m here to guide and support you.

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If you want to heal, grow, awaken and thrive, and you’re ready to experience real inner shifts, I’m here to guide and support you.

Lee Bladon The Awakening Coach

Discovery Call
(30 mins on Zoom)

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(60 mins on Zoom)

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(6 x 60 mins on Zoom)

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